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9 Considerations for You And Your Co-Parent as You Navigate Child Therapy.

Children processing a divorce in the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic can certainly benefit from seeing a therapist. Keep the following tips in mind. Here are some basic rules of the road for choosing and dealing with your child’s therapist: Before you enlist the help of a therapist(s), make sure your co-parent approves of the […]

How to Divorce Someone Suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

One of the greatest challenges that can face a married couple or a couple in the process of getting a divorce is when one or both partners suffer from a mental health disorder. The issues that arise from the stress of marriage and child-rearing are complex for even the most emotionally stable couple. Adding a […]

Financial Stalking: Another Frontier in Financial Abuse

Keeping tabs on how you spend money is an abusive power play. Financial stalking is the notion that one person continually checks on what another is doing with their money without permission. The goal of the abuser is to manipulate, intimidate, and threaten the victim through finances and to entrap them. Financial abuse often occurs […]

5 Tips to Get Through a Divorce with a Narcissist

Breaking free of a marriage with a narcissist is complex. Preparation is key.   Divorcing a narcissistic spouse is typically high-conflict and overwhelming so it’s important to mentally and legally prepare. Ending the marriage requires organization, strength, and a team of dependable, supportive individuals. Strategies including enlisting a strong attorney and therapist, keeping rigorous records, […]

When Your Partner Has a Gambling Addiction

When Your Partner Has a Gambling Addiction How to help, and protect your and your family’s finances. March 23, 2021 Gambling addiction can destroy a family. The addict will consume any and all resources, from retirement to children’s 529 accounts. Protect yourself from the fallout by reviewing account statements and tax returns, and documenting the […]

Divorcing the Narcissist

Financially Ever After Lisa Zeiderman was the featured guest on Stacy Francis’ popular podcast to discuss narcissists and divorce. Narcissists will use mediation as a form of control in the divorce process. But Lisa gives tips on how to divorce a narcissist. Listen to the podcast on Megaphone

Mental Health Prior to and During Divorce

On Hindell Grossman’s popular podcast, “Inside Divorce: Practical Advice,” Lisa speaks about mental health issues prior to and during divorce, and how to handle red flags when they show up. This discussion includes the topics of narcissism, borderline disorder, bi-polar disorder, and gaslighting. Lisa also talks about the importance of building a team around a […]